Some folk like plenty of stability and enough wing to keep things fairly slow, a la Aeronca C3, Chief, Piper Cub, Lightwing, Drifter, Thruster... and some like small and efficient, e.g. Cri Cri, Corby Starlet, Moni, Sonex, Lightning Bug, BD-5J.
It's actually cheaper, from powerplant and materials aspects, to make something small and efficient - Starlite anyone? - and such aeroplanes are easier to store, and generally cheaper to maintain than, er, any other style of flying machine (ignoring hang gliders!).
Some people build kits for the building experience - Falco? - and some to save money - Savannah?; do more people want a quick, easy, and cheap kit, even if it flies fast, or do most want something slow & friendly, even if it takes longer and costs more?
Most sub-600kg aeroplanes were designed as trainers, against standards and practical requirements for trainers; and that's what they do well. But unscrewing $60k plus for a personal aircraft that is designed, not for a private owner's needs, but as a trainer, does not seem like "affordable flying" to me.
So - for the cheapest way to get airborne & visit flyins - is one seat enough? How much luggage? How much range? Folding wings and easy trailerage? How much "hot and high" takeoff ability? How fast? How small? how slow? how big? How 2-stroke?
Bewildered Bob.