To me, flying is a LOT safer than driving... and a helluva lot more fun.
Robyn is a nervous passenger, and Ive only managed to get her in the right seat once this past year. The kids are a different story.
I did the full safety routine with Robyn, and somehow that made her even more scared. She has a friend with a PA 28 "who never does any of that stuff" and she felt safer. Mind you, some of the stories of her flights with him made me wonder if the guy is fit to fly...
Having said that, she has enough confidence in me to trust me with the kids, as she knows I go overboard on flight safety and wont risk anything - and always plan the flight and fly the plan.
Ben