Hey Jethro,
If your looking for a tough as nails, easy to fly but not bus like aircraft with exceptional crash survivability, then a local product is what you want.
It is called a Jabiru, can be kit or factory built. Lots on market and cheap compared to any imports. If you absolutely have to impact the ground or a tree or a riverbank etc- it is the machine.
It is easy to kill yourself or get mangled in any aircraft. But history has proven you have to try real hard in a jabiru, the cabin structure is amazingly tough and absorbs a lot of forces instead of transferring it to the pilot.
Manage your engine well, maintain it well, keep fuel in the tanks and fly to its envelope.
If it all goes really wrong- there is nothing I would rather be in. Physics is a cruel mistress but a Jabiru can be a fairy godmother.
The only fatalities I know of where
A flight into a mountainside - cumulus granite.
Wings torn off in a very powerful storm cloud in Europe.
A nose first vertical into the ground after stalling.
All were pilot error and generally non survivable in anything with wings.
I would always trust one.
Litespeed