Well, if you go digging on CASA's website, there does not seem to be a hard rule as to size - but a recommendation that the extinguisher should be rated 5E (in the Australian rating system) or 5C (in the American rating system). That means, as far as I can work out, that it's capable of dealing with a fire of 5 square feet area, and suitable for an electrical fire. The Halotron extinguisher for that rating is 2.25 Kg, again so far as I can discover.
That size extinguisher would seem to me to be about what one would want as a hand-held in something like a Fokker F 27, to deal with a fire in the electrical rack; but there's no way one could use it in a motorglider cockpit - there's simply not room to manoeuvre one that big, let alone room to stow it where it can be reached in flight. One that size may well extinguish the crew as well as the fire, I suspect.
I'm still trying for some guidance on this, but I think it comes down to what sort of fire is likely in your aircraft? That's an interesting question, in a composite aircraft; and I recall the fire chief at Camden having to be physically restrained from dumping 3000 gallons of foam on a K13 glider, which landed in a hurry after one of the crew dropped a cigarette butt onto the fuselage fabric covering (they beat it out with their giggle hats); but in a metal aircraft that does not have flammable cabin lining, and with an electrical system that complies with AC 43 Chapter 11, realistically you're looking at either a burning Ipad or a frying radio or some such piece of electrical gear. Once the power to that is off, it should not take a lot of extinguishant to calm it down.
My answer to a burning Ipad, by the way, is to mount it in a stainless steel tray with a lid that acts as a hood to keep the sun off it, and vent the hood to the outside, so it sucks cabin air out past the ipad to cool it - and to get rid of the smoke it it gets excited.