I've never said you can only do one thing or the other, both at the extremes. There is middle ground here, There are other options between full lockdown and do nothing.
I did read an article just the other day where Sweden's Chief medical person said the only thing he would have done differently would have been to more to protect the vulnerable, but Sweden's fatalities have started to drop off, which apparently indicates they have reached a point where enough people have had it to have reached some form of resistance.
All we have done is the medical equivalent of hiding under the bed. It won't go away, and we have to come out sometime.